- play outside for 30 minutes
- play anything else inside for 1 hour
- read for 30 minutes
- play a game for 30 minutes
- create something for 30 minutes
- do extra cleaning for 20 minutes (generous huh)
- 1 pass for each assignment accomplished at school
Also, there was such a pestering about having late nights with friends every single night that I charged the kids 10 fun passes for 1 late night--it worked!
It only lasted the first month of summer since we were only consistently home then.
The one problem was that at least one child (who will remain nameless) consistently forgot to turn in his passes before playing computer and I frequently found them (the passes) scattered all around the house. So I started picking them up and putting them away which resulted in many tears and exclamations of "I had 28 fun passes and now I only have 4." Maybe a little too much refereeing of fun passes on my part. Maybe next year will try a chart. The thing that was great about the passes was that I didn't have to answer that never ending question, "mom, can I play the computer" or be the bad guy because "no" is my usual answer to that question. Instead the kids learned to monitor their own playing and couldn't really play more than an hour a day, unless they really did a lot of other mind using activities.
5 comments:
I love this idea!
Fun Passes and the Golden Ticket? Why you've somehow combined the magic of Wonkaland with the thrill of the carnival. It's utterly amazing! We need to try something just like this as our days are pretty unorganized as it is.
Great idea!! I'll have to remember this...actually maybe I can use this idea on Andy! :)haha
You are so on top of it! I love when kids learn that kind of independence and consequences...I need to work on letting my children learn some of that. Thanks for the ideas!
I think Benji would like it for a while-I bet its better with more kids- positive peer pressure.
Your clever.
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